Worth the Wait

Max Discovers He is Big Brother

2011-10-23T16:36:00.006-04:00

We couldn't resist getting this on video: the moment we tell Max he is a big brother and Charley is coming home with us!

Max Would Like to Introduce!

2011-10-22T16:22:00.003-04:00

Maximus is a proud big brother to Charlotte Jane. Our sweet Charley was lovingly placed in our arms on her birthday, October 22, 2011.

Charley is absolutely a miracle baby to us! From meeting the birthmother, Aaron, to driving home with our daughter, it was only 8 short days. I will unfold the story to you in the upcoming days. Truly, I can tell you, nothing is impossible for God!

Football is in the Air

2011-09-26T16:59:00.000-04:00

I just love football season.

Go BUCKS!

(Max and I on campus tailgating with family & friends. What fun!)

Ode to Brit

2011-09-23T11:43:00.003-04:00

Max and Brit at a recent trip to Fall Fest at the zoo!

Sam, Max and I added another to our family a little more than a year ago. :)

Brit, Sam's cousin, moved in with us summer of 2010 and what was supposed to be a summer housing arranging before heading back to OSU for her final year, turned into something much more. She is now a college grad and has a full-time job, with a very long and important title. Oh ya, and still lives with us much to our delight.

Sam and I have enjoyed Brit's company and friendship, and Max has enjoyed the joys of having a "big sister."

One of my favorite things about Brit is her love and adoration towards our little man. She shares such a unique relationship with him and I can't imagine Max not having her a part of his little life. (In all honesty, does he really remember what life was like pre-Brit? Probably not! He had just turned 2 when she moved in.)

I love their banter. For instance, this is an actual quote I had to say while out driving the gang:
"Max stop kicking Brit's seat, Brit please turn around and stop swatting his foot away!"

Now if that isn't true sibling rivalry, I don't know what is!

However, what I (and Maximus!) love most about Brit is her creativity and passion for trying, finding and having new adventures with Max. She is not content to just sit at home and do the norm with him (can I get an Amen! from those that also know and love Brit.)

Her latest and greatest adventure: Giving Max an entire can of shaving cream in the bathtub. He was COVERED head to toe and I am sure having the time of his life. The next morning, he told me all about it with strict instructions that, "we need to go to the store and get more of that stuff so I can do it every night!"

Oh what fun!

Guess what Brit? I LOVE you!

Dear Brit,

From the bottom of our hearts, thank you! Thank you for investing your love and time into our sweet and precious little boy. We can't think of a better role model, friend or sister for Maximus. We trust you implicitly and are grateful for all the little moments that you make special. These are going to be life-long impressions and memories for Max! Thank you!!

xoxoxo

Sam and Jen

First Day of Preschool

2011-09-06T16:06:00.044-04:00

Our baby is off to school. That's right, Tuesday and Thursday afternoons, Max will be with Miss Katie and his new friends. This is going to be an amazing adventure for Maximus. And he is so ready! He walked into his classroom confident, excited and ready to try something new. All traits I love about our little man.

The first day of school simply consisted of an hour-long orientation. Half of the time, we stayed in the room with him, the rest we split up giving Max time to get acclimated to his new classroom. As some of the children sat on their mommy's laps clinging to them for dear life, our boy started exploring the room and would periodically look over his shoulder and give us the eye as if to say, "aren't you leaving yet?"

So maybe this school thing is going to be harder on me than it is him. I love spending my days with Max. He is funny and adorable (and I should mention strong-willed most of the time.) But, this school thing is going to be great for him.

So cheers to growing up my little man! I am so proud of you!

OBX 2011

2011-09-05T15:40:00.001-04:00

Hurricane Irene could not keep us away. Maybe delay us by a couple of days (while we were safely tucked away and enjoying Raleigh, NC), but vacation 2011 proved to be one of the best years yet!

The build-up for this vacation was like none before. Max fully understood what it meant to go to the beach, build sandcastles, fly kites, go boogie boarding, you catch my drift. It was a loooooong summer waiting for THE beach vacation.

And once we arrived, the beach did not disappoint. Family, fun, afternoon naps, ice cream, walks on the beach, waves, seashell hunting, games, movies, and more. It was quite the week to remember.

Here are some of the highlights:

Max's love language: chocolate ice cream.

These waves are fierce dude!

This face sums up Max's disposition all week: sheer joy!

The annual family photo on the beach.

The kiddos.
Thirteen total. Ten under the age of 5!

One big happy family.

Life at the beach. I love it!

Chawocklit and Manilla

2011-08-15T14:53:00.000-04:00

This is, hands-down, my favorite words in Max's vocabulary right now. Just wanted to give you a chuckle too!

Blue Bike

2011-08-10T08:10:00.001-04:00

Max just seems to be growing up before our very eyes. His new passion: the blue bike.

He has recently mastered riding his bike. It took some practice sessions and determination, but he's got it down! We have spent the last couple of days doing family bike rides. As I watch Max riding down the sidewalk, I can't help but think, "really, he is big enough that we can take a bike ride together?" Some days I feel like I blinked and then he was three, and mister independent. ;)

Max and the Motorcycle

2011-08-02T17:04:00.000-04:00

Max can't seem to get enough of Sam's 4-wheeler. He asks constantly, "Can we can go out to Uncle Tom and Aunt Beth's farm today so I can ride my motorcycle?"

Well, daddy delivered today.

As I weeded, and worked, and labored, and tended our organic garden, the boys were living it up. Laughing, smiling, and grinning from ear to ear. They would blaze by me, then slow down to a crawl so Max could yell out, "do you see me mama, do you see me?" Sure do buddy.

So what does a piece of heaven look like to Max? Apparently, it's a hunk a metal that you can ride at high flying speeds, and includes dirt in the face, grit in the teeth, and a sweaty head of hair under that helmet. Go get em' boys!

Isn't He Handsome?

2011-07-30T16:42:00.000-04:00

Maximus played the role of ring bearer over the weekend for my cousin Michael, and his bride, Missy. Max took his job very seriously and won the crowd (errr I mean guests) over with his adorable toddler strut, big blue eyes and commitment to get the job done right. He was all business while standing in the bridesmaids line-up and when it was his big debut, he stuck his hand out for the flower girl and said, "hold my hand Bailey." He and Bailey successfully made it down the aisle, with flowers and pillow in tact. Well done!

Melt. My. Heart. These photos are priceless.

Happy Independence Day!

2011-07-04T15:59:00.000-04:00

4th of July is one of my favorite holidays we get to celebrate. And freedom is such a powerful word. Webster's defines it as a state of being free, at liberty rather than confinement, and independence. In Scripture it says this,"It was for freedom that Christ set us free; therefore keep standing firm and do not be subject again to a yoke of slavery." (Galatians 5:1)

We are truly blessed to have freedom. To experience life as free people, not in bondage, not in slavery. But, truly, free.

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Can you believe how time goes so quickly? I love doing then and now pictures. And this seemed like the perfect opportunity.

Max

4th of July 2010

Max & Family

4th of July 2011

Smoothie King

2011-06-25T15:44:00.000-04:00

Max and I have fully embraced smoothies these last few months. We have at least one, if not two, a day.

Our morning always starts out with a green smoothie. If you don't know exactly what a green smoothie is, you should try one. I can't think of a better way to start the day. (Well, start the day after my mandatory cup o' joe).

Most of our green smoothies (and keep in mind, there is no recipe to follow) start with lots of fresh fruit. Bananas, peaches, mangos, cherries, berries, really, whatever I have on hand that sounds like it would be good together. We add some greens (that is where the green smoothie part comes in) like spinach, kale, chard, parsley and anything else green we can find in our fridge! Add some raw honey, chia seeds, dash of flax seeds if we feel like it, fresh lemon juice, carrot juice and if need be purified water.

So day to day, the color of our smoothie changes. Max's least favorite is when it is actually green. Usually means mama put in too much of that healthy lettuce and such. ;)

So drink up! Max sure does. And has the smoothie mustache to prove it!

My Lawn Guys

2011-06-20T18:53:00.000-04:00

So lets just start out by saying that Max has been begging Sam to mow the grass together. Last year, Sam spent most of the summer mowing the grass with Max in the Kelty backpack. Sweat much?

Well this year, Sam decided to ease his summer load and hire the 12-year-old neighbor boy to cut our grass when needed. And I am pretty sure Sam has not regretted his $15-a-cut investment once. Nope, not once.

However, little Max has not forgotten about the Kelty and that feeling a man (or boy in this case) must get when behind a powerful engine, cutting the grass, hair blowing in the wind/gas fumes, sweat dripping into your eyes. You get it. He was desperate for a ride with his daddy pushing that mower.

So Sam's new summer best friend, Wesley the 12-year-old lawn boy, went on summer vacation with his family. Which means, Sam had to do the dirty, sweaty grass cutting himself.

Mission Accomplished.

Little boys summer dream fulfilled.

Check.

Impromptu Sprinkler Fun

2011-06-14T18:46:00.002-04:00

Really Max? Is it really necessary to have arm floaties on while running through the Elmo sprinkler?

Little Gym Ceremony

2011-06-06T17:05:00.001-04:00

Over the years, I have posted lots of pictures and videos of Max at Little Gym. This has been an awesome "mommy and Max" experience for us. Since 4 months of age, we have been faithful gymers. As Max graduated from Bugs to Birds to Beasts to Super Beasts and currently, Funny Bugs, I would have this bittersweet moment. On one hand, I am the proud mama. Can't believe he is growing up. And so thrilled that he is moving up to the next class. On the other hand, I can't help but think. He is growing up. And moving up to the next class.

So this little post is of Max finishing up his final Funny Bugs class of the season. In this class, he didn't need his mama anymore (sniff, sniff) and marched into every class with 16 other classmates and 3 teachers. This graduation ceremony actually consisted of 3 routines - floor exercise, beam and bar. And he stuck the landing on every one. Class ended with an olympic-style, medal ceremony. Proud of you Maximus! You are quite the little gymnast.

Let the Summer Fun Begin

2011-05-21T16:23:00.000-04:00

Does summertime get any better than this? Welcome warm weather!

Kite Flying

2011-05-04T16:07:00.000-04:00

Sam and Max have a new hobby: kite flying!

We have a big, 40-acre park by our house and in about a 3 minute bike ride (with Max holding onto the kite for dear life in the burly bicycle trailer) we have open fields and plenty of room to catch some wind for some serious kite-flying-fun!

First Trip to the Dentist

2011-05-03T16:13:00.003-04:00

Max did a rock-star job at his first dentist visit. Not only are his teeth perfect (no cavities for this toddler!), he sat super still while they gave him a full mouth cleaning. Way to go bud!

Happy 3rd Birthday Maximus!

2011-04-30T15:22:00.000-04:00

To our sweet and handsome Maximus,

It is hard to believe you are celebrating your 3rd birthday. You are growing up so quickly!

We love your sense of humor, your personality, your thoughtfulness, your big smile and big blue eyes. We love your laugh and the way you say your little toddler words. We love that you still want to cuddle and snuggle with us.

You, Max, are destined for greatness!

We love you with that intense kind of love little man.

xoxo

Mommy and Daddy

Oh right, for you blog followers. You might be wondering about the zebra Max requested for his birthday present.

Thanks Aunt Kristen! However, as quickly as Max unwrapped he, he chucked it over his head, because he saw soccer gear in the gift bag that he wanted more. LOL

3 Days...and Counting!!

2011-04-27T17:52:00.003-04:00

Yes, that is correct.

Mr. Maximus has the birthday countdown ON!

I caught this little diddy on camera. Is this child still asking for a zebra?

Family Photo Shoot

2011-04-24T15:53:00.004-04:00

Thanks to Uncle Chris we ended up with a great Easter Sunday photo shoot.

Fireworks: A spectacular display or celebration

2011-04-19T15:42:00.007-04:00

Today is a very important and memorable day in our family:

It is April 19th Day.

On this very day, three years ago, Sam and I, were given a gift like no other.

Colton, Max's birthfather, wrapped up for us, in a beautiful package, signed paperwork so that we could begin our journey as mommy and daddy to sweet Maximus.

As I have spent most of today reflecting and rejoicing, I began searching the Scriptures for the perfect passage to express the words in my heart. I landed on one of my favorite Psalms.

Psalms 145:5-6

"On the glorious splendor of Your majesty and on Your wonderful works, I will meditate.

Men shall speak of the power of Your awesome acts, and I will tell of Your greatness."

I then decided to pull out a few other Bibles and compare notes in other translations. This often helps me to get the full picture, the full meaning of a verse in the Bible.

I can't help but share how The Message reads:

"Your beauty and splendor have everyone talking;

I compose songs on your wonders.

Your marvelous doings are headline news;

I could write a book full of the details of your greatness."

To us, Maximus was, and still is, our headline news. His story, his birth, his way into our family, was nothing short of a miracle. Nothing short of God moving a giant mountain and giving us more than we could "ever imagine or guess or request in our wildest dreams." (Ephesians 3:20).

And just to confirm that this relationship with Jesus we are in is not a one-way communication, while reading one of the Bibles (one translation that I haven't picked up in a while), out fluttered the tiny birth announcement that Colton had designed and lovingly placed in that precious gift bag on that momentous day. God is just so outrageous that He wanted me to know that He heard me today reflecting, rejoicing, celebrating, and speaking of His goodness.

Front: It's A Boy

Back: His Name Is Maximus

I found it quite interesting, as I examined Colton's work of art a bit closer, that he would choose to put fireworks on the announcement. And then, since God and I were having quite the interactive conversation, I felt prompted to look up what Webster's dictionary had to say about the word firework. And wouldn't you know, it means a spectacular display or celebration.

So that my friends is a definition for April 19th Day that I intend to keep. A celebration day where God's goodness and faithfulness are on spectacular display.

*****

For other April 19th Day posts visit:

http://meetmaximus.blogspot.com/2008/04/colorado-part-ii.html

http://meetmaximus.blogspot.com/2009/04/april-19th-day.html

Max's Birthday Wish List

2011-04-18T08:52:00.000-04:00

Here's a peek in on one of my everyday conversations with the little man:

Max: Hey, I've got a grrrreat idea.

Me: Sure, buddy, what is your great idea?

Max: I know what I want for my birpday.

Me: Ok, what is it?

Max: A giraffe and a balloon.

Me: Interesting. Did you say a giraffe?

Max: And a balloon.

Me: Right, I got that part. I can deliver on the balloon. Not sure how I am going to find you a giraffe.

And there you have it. The mind of an almost 3 year old!

P.S. Since having this conversation, I followed up with him to see if he changed his wish list. Of course he did! Now, he said he wants a zebra. :)

Getting Ready for the Big Day!

2011-04-17T19:54:00.001-04:00

Practice.

Makes.

Perfect.

That's right. Max is slightly excited about his birthday this year. We are getting in lots of practice sessions. This particular cram session included Max pulling out his Spiderman (or as he says, "Piderman") plates and cups, me slicing up a banana, and then slapping a candle on top. Max then had to draw a birthday card invitation for daddy and run upstairs to invite him to his impromptu breakfast party. And after singing him Happy Birthday, lighting and re-lighting the candle 3 times and all having a good laugh, we decided ~~he is quite the ham and has us wrapped around his finger~~ he is more than ready to celebrate his birthday this year!

Only 13 days away Sir Maximus!

Swim Lessons

2011-03-28T16:09:00.004-04:00

Max is such a big boy now. He doesn't even need me in the water for swim lessons anymore. (sniff, sniff).

I have had a few bittersweet moments like this lately. Since he was 4 months old, I have been doing parent & me classes. From The Little Gym to swim lessons, I was always required to be by his side.

But, now my little man is graduating to the big time. He doesn't need ol' mom anymore to accompany him in his gym class or in the water.

Check out my baby boy. Not such a baby anymore, huh?

(Max is the second one in on the side of the pool...)

All Things Sports

2011-03-08T08:31:00.004-05:00

Maximus is a sports fanatic (just like his daddy). For instance:

1. He plays hockey (fully dressed in shoulder pads and hockey jersey) and has moves that school the average toddler. Also, while playing goalie (we have a net in the basement) he reaches behind him to grab his fake water bottle and take a swig before he gets in position. Just like the real NHL players.

2. He loves to shoot hoops in his bedroom on his digital basketball hoop. And if Sam and I just happen to sneak away for a minute to play a game of horse, we can hear him thundering down the hallway to join in the fun.

3. Soccer is yet another passion. We are trying to teach him that you can't exactly tackle your opponent in this particular sport while trying to get the ball.

4. Football is full-contact and you better watch out because he will line drive you and knock you over, while growling I might add.

Not only does he love to play, but he loves to watch all sports. His favorite spot is cuddled up on the couch next to daddy watching hockey or college basketball. It amazes me that he has an attention span for this!

And of course, live sports! He has been to many hockey games and recently just went to his first Ohio State basketball game. He certainly loves the popcorn and treats, but surprises us every time with his enthusiasm, focus, and love for the mascot (he tends to be a broken record while getting their attention....hi Brutus, hi Brutus, hi Brutus, hi Brutus).

This picture is irresistible to me. It is Max, in sheer pleasure, at the Ohio State Basketball game.

Prrrrincess

2011-03-03T13:05:00.004-05:00

At Max's request, we pulled out our wedding album, curled up on the couch together, and started looking through the photos of me and Sam on our wedding day.

In Max's little words, and adorable little voice, he exclaims:

Is that the day you was a prrrrrincess mommy?

Yes buddy, that certainly was the day I was a princess.

Melt. My. Flippin'. Heart.

Itsy Bitsy Pider

2011-02-23T17:41:00.002-05:00

Max sings his favorite song, "Itsy Bitsy Pider."

Enjoy!

The Prize Box

2011-02-04T17:05:00.004-05:00

So we have an entire week underway of Max in big boy underwear. And can I just report that he is doing awesome! We have continued to be on-the-go and he has completely been flexible and ready for the adventure!

I could count on one hand the amount of potty accidents he has had when it comes to pee pee. (Did I just say pee pee on this blog? I did, moving along.) He has even woken up in the middle of the night, calling our names, and after peeling off the layers, and diaper, he successfully goes pee pee in the potty.

He is coming into our room in the mornings with absolutely NOTHING on from the waist down. Quite a sight when you are still trying to wake up! Our new alarm clock is the potty flushing and Max running into our room to tell us about his pee pee on the potty.

With all the success I am sharing (because I certainly don't want to paint a picture that potty training is easy), I must be transparent and share that the biggest challenge has been Max trying to figure out how to time the poo poo for the potty. He has had many, many accidents. I am having to give myself motivational speeches (call the hubby and friends to give me motivational speeches) so I can give the Mister motivational speeches on how cool and exciting and fabulous poo poo in the potty can be.

I have resorted to incentivizing (some might call it bribing) Max with the Poo Poo Prize Box. This fancy box is chalked full of gum, pez dispensers, matchbox cars, silly bands, sweet tarts, life savers, and yes, even a ring pop. What toddler would not LOVE to pick something from the prize box as a reward for going poo poo in the potty?!

This prize box has been taunting Max the past two days. Poor buddy. Every time he would have an accident, he would look at me with his big, sad, blue eyes and say, "mommy, do I get something out of the prize box?" And I had to painfully tell him "no, you need to go poo in the potty and then we will celebrate and pick a prize out of the box!"

Well, today, was finally the day. He was quite pleased with himself and went straight for the prize he has been staring at from a distance the past two days. The Ring Pop. And he enjoyed every last lick.

Olympic-Bound

2011-02-01T07:58:00.002-05:00

Surprised to see me so soon?

I couldn't resist sharing a Little Gym moment with you. Max and I have been dedicated Little Gym-ers since he was a mere 4 months old. When he started he could barely lift his head off the red mat, now he is only 3 short months away from me dropping him off and heading to class without me (sniff, sniff).

I have absolutely loved taking Max to this class. It has been amazing to watch his skills grow over the years. He is so independent now running from the rings, to the bar, to the balance beam. Doing bear walks and spider crawls, donkey kicks and wall handstands.

One of his latest and greatest accomplishments in the forward roll (formerly known as the somersault). This has taken him quite a while to master the right technique, but once he got it, he can't get enough!

Check out our little tumbler.

Happy 2011...Better Late Than Never

2011-01-31T14:39:00.007-05:00

Where has the time gone?

And how do I re-enter the bloggy world after taking a 10 week hiatus?

I'm not really sure if I can do the past couple of months justice by giving you a top ten list or even highlights. I have to admit I have been living in the PRESENT, enjoying each moment with my hubby, my little BIG boy and friends. I have really tried to cherish the here and now because if you don't already know this, time flies! And it seems to be passing me by at record speed right now.

I am pretty sure having a toddler will do that to you. It seems that each day we have a new milestone, a new word or phrase, a new something to laugh at together.

Picture this: Max snuggled in bed with Sam early in the morning. After he is completely situated, nestled right up next to his daddy, covers on, blanket in tow, Max exclaims, "this is soooooooo cozy daddy." Talk about making your heart melt, right?

Or this one: Max in my arms, on my hip, and we are having a conversation, he abruptly stops mid-sentence to pat my pony tail and say, "mommy your hair is soooooo cute." Laugh out loud, right?

I'm telling you this is my EVERY DAY right now. Making our hearts melt, finding joy at every turn, and grateful for this little boy (that is growing up WAY too quickly).

So with all that being said, I need to start sharing these moments that I have been keeping all to myself and get back to sharing them with you.

So I promise that my bloggy vacation is OVER and I have returned.

Before I say good-bye for today I must wish you all a MERRY CHRISTMAS:

Max in his new bounce castle!

And HAPPY NEW YEAR:

Ringing in 2011

So Cheers. To new milestones. A life full of laughter. And hope to what the future will bring.

10 Things List

2010-11-16T16:11:00.008-05:00

Since I have been on hiatus from the blogging world, I thought it would be best to re-enter by giving you a 10 Things I Should Have Blogged About the Past Month List.

10. The annual making of the pumpkin pie. This is Sam's 3rd year involving the Mister. First year, Max was in the Bjorn. Second year, in the backpack Kelty, and this year, such a big boy on the counter. Max is very into cooking these days, so he was in heaven helping his daddy.

9. Max's new love: Fire Trucks. He plays with fire trucks. Has a fire truck song that he sings. And has even visited the nearby fire station. (**instant update: Max just looked over my shoulder and saw the picture of fire truck below. He started shouting "Fire Truck, Fire Truck! Let's go see a Fire Truck.") I think you get the idea. The boy is into Fire Trucks. :)

8. Road trip to Chi-Town. Chicago is one of our favorite places to visit, so we thought it was about time we introduced Max to city life. He LOVED it! He took his first train ride (from the suburbs to the city) and his first taxi ride all in one day! I am pretty sure I was an adult before I did either one of those, so I am kind of proud of the fact that we had Max in a train and cab at the age of 2.

7. Buckeye Fever. We all get it this time of year. This season, we erected a 9' tall x 16' wide screen in our backyard. We invited our friends and family and had an outdoor viewing party. It was a night to remember. Hot cider, lots of appetizers, everyone in Buckeye gear, lawn chairs, an HD projector and a big screen. Does it get any better? Oh right, would have been nice if they would have beat Wisconsin.

6. Girls trip to Minneapolis, Minnesota. My girlfriend Becky and I flew to visit one of our friends Joy for a long weekend. We had a great time eating sushi, drinking Jamba Juice and spending an afternoon at the spa. As much fun as it was, I would much rather her just move back to Ohio. Long-distance relationships stink. :)

5. Trick or Treat! Max was Mickey Mouse this year and proud of it! He had lots of opportunities to show off his costume since we happened to trick or treat in two different neighborhoods. In our neighborhood, he ran around with his little friend, Brooke (a.k.a. Minnie Mouse).

4. We have been coping with the loss of my sweet grandmother "Nana" who passed away. I have never met a woman more vibrant with life, active, bubbly and joyful. She was so happy to be alive and showed us all how to live in the moment and enjoy each day given to us. She was a wonderful woman, and I call it a privilege to celebrate her life.

3. Sam and I met Cabo San Lucas for the first time in early November. And we liked it. :) We had a 4-day getaway in paradise. It was hands-down the most romantic place we have every stayed. It was private and remote. Service was outstanding (do I need to mention we had our own private butler?). And the views were incredible. There is something about being in a place where you have the ocean and the mountains in one setting. Stunning. Absolutely stunning.

2. And while we were away? Max was in good hands with Sam's cousin Brit. She adores Maximus and couldn't wait to spend time with him for 4 days. She had special activities planned from bowling to the fire station to ice cream. Thank you Brit for taking such great care of our little boy. Take a look at Max's smiles below, he obviously had a great time in our absence.

1. And last, but not least. Max went ice skating for the first time. Sam might have done some research and found out that we can put Max in hockey/ice skating lessons at the age of 3. So, since that is only 6 months away, we wanted to get the ball rolling and help Max get comfortable on the ice. He did great! He might just be a hockey player in the making.

The Start of a New Hockey Season

2010-10-03T19:04:00.003-04:00

Welcome to the 2010-2011 Hockey Season!

As most of our friends and family know, there is always a buzz around our house during hockey season. Sam is a huge fan, and has quickly turned Max into a fan. To say that Max was mesmerized during our first pre-season game is an understatement. He couldn't get enough of the ice, and the hockey players, and the big tv (jumbotron), and the cannon, and Stinger.

Yep, I said it.

Stinger.

The big mascot made an appearance close to our seats early in the game and Max couldn't stop talking, and asking, and looking for Stinger. "Where did Stinger go?" "Is Stinger still here?" "I need to find Stinger." Sam kept trying to re-direct his attention to the ice and the hockey game, but Max just couldn't let it go.

So late in the second period, Stinger reappears. Of course we make a beeline so that Max can shake his hand and get a photo. But, instead of running up to Stinger and giving him a hand pound, Max turned gun-shy and wouldn't even look our mascot in the eyes. In fact, Max was clinging to us for dear life, and begging us with his eyes to take him back to his seat. Honestly? I don't blame him. I mean seriously, it is an adult dressed up like a big hornet.

But, I digress.

Let me share some of my favorite photos of our first hockey game to kick off the 2010-2011 season.

Apple Picking Adventure

2010-09-28T16:09:00.005-04:00

With autumn leaves falling and cooler weather approaching, Max and I decided to join Kristen and her gang at the apple orchard and picked 1/2 bushel of delicious, organic, apples.

It is hard to believe it has been a couple of years since we visited an apple orchard. Max was only about 5 months old the last time we picked apples. Look at how little he is!

And now our little boy is not-so-little anymore. This adventure was right up his ally. He absolutely loved picking apples. And eating them. In fact, he spent more time eating than picking. I caught him over and over again picking an apple, taking 2 bites, and then tossing it into his bag. After I realized he had done this with more than a dozen apples we had to have a little chat about "respecting the apple orchard" and "not wasting the precious, organic apples."

All in all, it was a fantastic day and a fantastic memory. I am looking forward to this becoming an annual tradition. And wouldn't be surprised if we find ourselves back at the apple farm later this year picking a different variety of delicious apples!

Post for Uncle E

2010-09-23T15:14:00.003-04:00

We decided to sign Max up for an indoor soccer clinic on Saturday mornings. I am not sure who is more excited each week to rush the soccer field - Max or daddy?

Max has proven, in a very short amount of time, that he has some soccer skills.

I thought that Uncle E (Emily's bro, who is also quite talented on the soccer field) would enjoy this little video.

OBX 2010

2010-09-09T15:47:00.004-04:00

That's right! We returned (a bit early thanks to Hurricane Earl) from our annual family vacation. This year, we had 16 adults and 11 children in one big house. Outer Banks seems to be the perfect location for all of us. The ocean, the charm, and of course for the menfolk, golf courses galore.

Max was a blast this year. He loved the sand, the ocean and the constant playdates with his cousins!

Here are some of my favorite photos:

Enjoying a snack poolside

Daddy's gift to Max:

his first boogie board

I can't believe Max picked up this (not so alive)

horseshoe crab

Mommy and Max's favorite after nap activity:

collecting sea shells

Another year=

Another attempt at a cousin photo

Flying High

in OBX

Faux Hawk Frenzy

2010-08-22T20:59:00.004-04:00

Max's long locks are history. We decided to give Max and a couple of his cousins (Eli and Gabe) a sweet faux hawk haircut before family vacation 2010.

I have to admit I wasn't so sure about the idea. But, with Sam's encouragement and advice that "it's just hair, why not give it a try?" we decided to join the faux hawk frenzy.

And can I just say I am so glad we did! The boys look ADORABLE.

P.S. Pics are photographed in our backyard. Thank you Carrie for coming to our house and giving three little toddlers a haircut. We realize that is no small feat!

The BEFORE photo.

Max sitting very still.

Max getting bribed by a dum-dum to sit still. :)

All done!

Max makes this faux hawk look goooooood.

An attempt at an AFTER photo.

Max and the Diving Board

2010-08-19T15:16:00.006-04:00

Who could forget our good friend Jimmy running through the fountains with Max at his 2nd birthday bash?

Well Jimmy does it again! We took a road trip to visit our good friends in New York and Max was in heaven while at Uncle Jimmy and Auntie Chrissy's house. From new toys to good food to his first 9-hole round of golf with daddy and Jimmy, Max was playing hard and sleeping harder.

However, the icing on the cake is that Jimmy and Chris have a pool in their backyard. It was like visiting a 5 star resort. All we had to do was walk out the back patio and we were in their backyard oasis. Max couldn't get enough. Every awake moment was spent either in the pool or asking to get in the pool.

As I mentioned above, Jimmy was up for making a memory with Max and being the spontaneous guy we all know and love.

Here is Jimmy taking Max off the diving board. My favorite? Max asking after every dive, "jump in again?"

I Still Do

2010-08-05T13:58:00.004-04:00

Sam and I just got back from 5 glorious days in Riveria Maya, Mexico. We celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary with friends/siblings Ron and Kristen.

As a surprise, Sam decided to plan a beachside wedding ceremony so we could renew our vows. It was amazing in every way. Ocean breeze, barefoot in the sand and the opportunity to say, I Still Do.

How did Sam pull of a surprise of this magnitude? With the help of his sister, Kristen. They planned, plotted and made decisions before our arrival. The ceremony took place on the first night of our vacation. Before we headed out the door for dinner, Sam mentioned he needed to check on something really quick and asked if I would please sit tight and wait for him. About ten minutes later, I received a knock on the door by a resort employee. As he handed me a beautiful bouquet of gerber daisies (my favorite), he asked me to follow him, my husband was waiting. So trusting this stranger, I followed him down to the beach, turned the corner, and lo and behold my husband was standing at the end of the beach aisle waiting for me.

My love, thank you for this amazing gift. The chance to renew our vows and reclaim our love for one another. Thank you for loving me more today than yesterday. I cherish you, our marriage and our family. I give you my promise to honor, respect and love you with all of my being for the rest of my days. With all my love, me.

Just Married...again!

Then and Now

2010-07-14T09:01:00.004-04:00

I love looking at Then and Now photos. Max is growing up so quickly and it reminds me to treasure every last moment.

So here is a fun Then and Now: Max with an ice cream cone.

Summer 2009

Summer 2010

Whoa Max!

2010-07-13T14:20:00.004-04:00

Max loves everything about going to grandma and grandpa's house. They have a dog named Abby and a sandbox in their backyard and he's allowed to take naps in their big king size bed. Do I need to go on?

They have a dog. We don't. They have a sandbox. We won't. He sleeps in their bed. Right, not going to happen.

In other words, he is in heaven at grandma and grandpa's house and is encouraged to play rough, get dirty and break the rules. That's what grandparents are for, right?

One of Max's recent discoveries, in the corner of the basement at Grandma's house, is a big red rocking horse. This used to be my mom's horse when she was a kid, was then passed down to me and my brothers when we were little, and now Max and his cousins get to take a joy ride on this wooden horse.

To say he loves this red horse is an understatement. I just hope the duck tape at the bottom holds up. Max does not take it easy one bit when riding this horse!

Welcome Quinton James!

2010-07-07T14:33:00.003-04:00

It is my joy to announce the birth of our newest nephew, Quinton James.

Making the day even more special, Quinton shares a birthday, and middle name, with his Uncle Sam.

Both born on July 7th.

So welcome to the world little Quinton and happy 30th birthday to my love, Sam!

Max Gives a Shout Out to his Cuz

2010-07-06T15:47:00.001-04:00

4th of July

2010-07-05T14:56:00.004-04:00

From a 4th of July parade...

To our annual neighborhood rib-off...

To an impressive fireworks display...

I would have to say our Independence Day celebration was perfect.

Boy, all Boy

2010-06-30T14:18:00.003-04:00

Max is turning into quite a rough and tumble little boy. He loves all things sports, he loves wrestling with daddy, he loves being chased, and his new favorite love: couch jumping.

**Sorry for all the extra video footage at the end. You at least get to see that sweet little face of his up close, and YES he is still a thumb-sucker. :)

Party in the Closet?

2010-06-29T15:52:00.005-04:00

For the past two years, our master bedroom closet has been a familiar sleep nook for infants and toddlers alike. It's dark, and cozy, and oh so perfect for sleeping.

Until now.

My nephew Eli joined us for naptime the other day and decided to have a little naptime party. Instead of sleeping in the pack n' play, like I instructed, he opted to pull 65 shirts off of hangers, 2 suits, bins of tank tops and bathing suits and 10 pair of shoes. He literally barricaded himself in the closet behind mounds of clothes.

Looks like the days of napping in our walk-in closet are over! Love you Eli, thanks for the laugh [and 30 minutes of work to put the closet back together!].

**Add-in: My BIL, John, arrived at just the right time. Not only did he help me discover Eli in all his glory, but he then spent the next 30 minutes helping me put clothes back on hangers. Thanks John!

HEAVEN

2010-06-17T16:57:00.007-04:00

Right. I know I have taken quite a long break at this blogging thing.

Please forgive me.

Now, with that business taken care of...

Let me present to you Max's idea of HEAVEN:

Uncle Tom is doing some much-needed work to our backyard so Max has been GLUED to the back window for days and today got to take a ride in the excavator. Well done Uncle Tom, that will certainly put you in the running for Uncle of the Year. In fact, you might now have it in the bag.

Thanks for making my little man's day!

Fire Hydrant Fun

2010-05-14T13:35:00.003-04:00

I love spontaneous fun! And that's exactly what we had this morning. Almost home from our morning walk with my gal pal, Sue, and Max's gal pal, Brooke, we stumbled across a fire truck and two firemen checking the hydrants.

In pure spontaneous fashion, we stripped the kids and let them play in the water. We might have followed them for a block and a half and watched the kids play in 5 different hydrants. We couldn't say no! They were squealing with delight and every time the hydrant would turn off, Max and Brooke would look at us and say in unison, "Again?"

Well of course! Off to the next hydrant we go!

Live and in Concert

2010-05-12T17:27:00.005-04:00

I know I have had previous posts about Max and his love of music.

But this one tops them all [at least in my opinion].

That's right, his new thing: Rockin' it out on the guitar.

He loves playing the guitar, with his foot tapping, singing at the top of his lungs, hands up in the air praising Jesus.

And, oh yes, I must mention that he needs to have an audience. Because he requires applause and affirmation. And then needs to know you want to hear it again. And again. And again.

I am pretty sure as long as you are willing to listen, he is willing to play.

My favorite is watching him trying to give himself a hand [saying "Yay" or "Go Max"] while he is balancing the guitar on his knee. Priceless.

Check him out. He's that good.

2nd Birthday Party

2010-05-10T20:37:00.004-04:00

This will officially be my last blog post about Max's 2nd birthday. I promise. ;)

We celebrated this past weekend by hosting a party that included our closest friends and family. Max soaked up every minute of his ultimate playdate with his favorite cousins and friends. Lunch, cake, a pinata, gifts...what more could a 2 year old want?

And to all my friends, you are so welcome for filling up the pinata with 5 lbs of candy and giving whistles to all your kids as a take-home gift. You can pay me back at your next birthday bash. :)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY little man!

2 Year Check Up

2010-05-06T21:17:00.003-04:00

Once again, I get to report that we have a healthy and growing little boy.

Max weighed 29.5 pounds and measured 36 inches tall. Both 75th percentile.

He is incredibly talkative and bright for a 2 year old.

Thank you Jesus for a healthy and happy toddler.

My Niece Norah

2010-05-02T20:49:00.002-04:00

Meet Norah Dee

Born May 1, 2010

7 lbs 6 ounces

19.5 inches

Congratulations John, Rachel and big brother Eli!

Birthday Bash Adventure

2010-05-01T15:05:00.005-04:00

What a night to remember! For Max's 2nd birthday celebration, we decided to take the little man to Benihana, a Japanese steakhouse that cooks the meal right in front of you. What entertainment for Max! To liven the evening up [and I do mean liven, wait until you hear the entire adventure] we invited our friends from New York, Jimmy, Chrissy, and daughters Alex and Samantha who have been in town visiting for the weekend.

As much fun as dinner was, watching Max pile white rice into his mouth, oooohing and awwwwing over the chef and his tricks, the entire restaurant singing him Happy Birthday, and proving he could eat every last bite of his strawberry ice cream, the evening adventure was only beginning.

Let me explain. The restaurant sits in a circular courtyard with the backsides of about 4 or 5 restaurant patios facing it. In the middle of the courtyard is a beautiful fountain [do you have any idea where this story is going now?]. It was a gorgeous night last night. Warm weather and of course an audience of people sitting on the patios dining for the evening.

Max started to get quite curious with the fountain. Stepping closer. Stepping back. Stepping even closer. Jumping back. Getting a little wet. Getting a LOT wet. By the end of the evening, he AND our friend Jimmy were BOTH running through the fountain. Max was giggling and laughing harder than I have ever seen before. It was priceless. Absolutely priceless.

So Jimmy, thanks for showing Max how to live life to the fullest and make the most of every opportunity. You are the man!

You have to watch this video to see how all the fun began:

Happy 2nd Birthday Maximus

2010-04-30T13:45:00.014-04:00

Dear Max,

It is hard to believe you are two years old today. Our lives have been radically changed because you are in it.

Your smile, your giggle, your innocence, your joy, your independence, your determination, your drive, your personality, your voice, your hug, your kiss...it makes our hearts melt.

We are so grateful to your birthparents for choosing US to be your forever family. What an honor and a privilege to be your mommy and daddy. We simply cannot imagine life any other way. You were meant for us and we were meant for you.

Happy Birthday to you Maximus, our son.

Hugs, kisses [and hand pounds],

Mommy and Daddy

Updates +

2010-04-27T19:37:00.007-04:00

Where has the month of April gone? I have apparently been in a bloggy daze and must apologize to my faithful blog followers [all 2 or 3 of you] for the lack of posts.

I am going to try to make it up to you in this single post. To keep said updates organized I am resorting to actually numbering my random posts, pictures and yes, videos. I don't think I have ever done that in my years of blogging.

1. Max has apparently taken up the game of golf in his spare time. He is quite pleased with himself every time his club makes contact with the golf ball. And just for the record, daddy is quite proud.

2. Max is very sweet on our neighbor and his friend, Brooke. Only two doors away from each other, the kids literally run down the sidewalk towards each other with their arms open, ready for hugs. It is quite a sight and incredibly adorable.

3. I am not sure why I get all sappy when Max learns to do something new, but, I do. It always includes two moments for me. First, I celebrate at what he has learned to accomplish on his own. Then, I choke back tears because I realize he doesn't need me anymore to help him with that task. On this particular day, Max mastered blowing bubbles on his own. This is really no small feat and he was quite proud of himself. Ok, and I was proud of him too. Sniff, sniff.

4. Oh how I love the zoo! It is perfect for all ages. Max and I recently had a zoo adventure where he could not get enough of the aquarium. Every fish that swam by [and there have to be thousands in the big tank] he would scream and say louder than the time before, "FISH, A FISH!" Take a look!

5. And last, I can hardly believe that Max will be 2 years old in 3 days. I am pretty sure I am in denial. On the other hand, Max is not. In fact, he has been celebrating for a couple of weeks. From gifts in the mail to a mini-birthday party, Max is in birthday heaven. And if you ask him what he wants for his birthday he shouts, "Cake, I want Cake!" Take a look at Max doing a little birthday dance to a card he got in the mail [thanks Auntie Marie and Uncle Joe].

I am sure I will re-enter the blog world in only a few short days as we celebrate Max's 2nd birthday. Keep you posted!

Celebration of Life

2010-04-04T19:32:00.003-04:00

HAPPY EASTER!

"He isn’t here! He is risen from the dead, just as he said would happen."

Matthew 28:6

Max Greets the Ocean

2010-04-03T09:21:00.004-04:00

Hello bloggy world! Max and I just returned from a four day vacation in Florida. We traveled with my mom [a.k.a. grandma] and visited my grandparents [a.k.a. GG & Papa].

We logged lots of hours at the pool and spent one glorious day at the Siesta Key Beach. It was beautiful, sugary sand. And Max enjoyed every second. His squeals and laughter by the ocean were priceless. Here's a glimpse!

Swim Fan

2010-03-19T08:25:00.006-04:00

Max and I are getting ready for summertime by going to a weekly swim lesson. Little did I know how much the Mister would LOVE swim class. To be real with you, the only thing he doesn't love is putting his swim trunks on in the locker room. I practically have to pin him down to put on his swim diaper and trunks. I think he thinks it's tubby time and the trunks are just too constricting!

Just to prove how much he loves this new swim thing, he asks me EVERYDAY, "we going to pool? we going to pool? we going to pool?"

He also loves to throw himself on the wet, cold, tile floor of the indoor swim pool after lessons are over and give everyone a show with a full-blown temper tantrum. The first day, I had another mom walk by me and say, "well, at least you know he likes it!"

And like it Max does. I have a feeling we will be logging some serious hours in the pool this summer. Which is just fine by me. ;)

The trunks are on, Max is ready to go!

Enjoying our pool time together.

The BIG slide, which Max simply points at and says, "wee...wee!"

Loving this pool thing!

One of Max's favorite buddies, our neighbor Brooke.

Max and cousin Shayden.

Let's get going down this slide!

This is the life!

The Toddler Bed Update

2010-03-03T16:17:00.004-05:00

Can I start out by saying that SuperNanny would be so proud? We have successfully trained Max to sleep in his big boy toddler bed!

However, not without challenges. So let me recap.

Let me start out by sharing THE PLAN:

After much talk and debate, Sam and I settled on the teach-Max-bed-is-for-night-night program. We went into said plan realizing this could be a lot of grueling work on our part. It entailed us literally playing guard dog by his bedroom door and everytime Max hopped out of bed, we gently scooped him up, placed him in his bed, and enforced "Night Night." As SuperNanny would instruct: no eye contact, no cuddle time, just a stern "Night Night." The goal was for him to realize his bed was a safe place for, whelp you guessed it, Night Night.

Night #1 -
Sam, one of the most amazing daddy's I know, was on his own this night. [I realize this was not kind of me to have a Girl's Night Out on our first night of putting the Mister in his toddler bed]. But, Sam was a trooper and up for the challenge.

After more than an hour of back-and-forth [scooping Max up, putting him in bed, saying "Night Night"], Sam started to grow weary. Thankfully, I walked in the door about this time. Max was struggling, so we opted to rock him to sleep and place him in bed. [Sorry SuperNanny, we derailed in a weak moment]. The night was a long one considering Max woke up around 4:30am and, to get him back to sleep, Sam ended up sleeping on the floor in his room. When Sam woke up, Max was cuddled up next to him on the floor. What a sweet sight, yet not the result we were hoping for.

Night #2
I was up for the challenge and ready to teach Max that I was in charge. My SIL, Kristen's, pep talk that day sounded something like this:
"Buckle down. These small battles set the stage for the relationship. Avoid confrontation whenever possible, but when it occurs you MUST win."
Ok, I was ready. And an hour and twenty minutes later...I was exhausted. In fact, I was sweating and getting a work-out from the in-and-out and back-and-forth and out-of-bed-in-bed routine. Sam was great moral support, but we were realizing quickly that Max is one determined child. And he had apparently decided that he MUST win.
Instead of rocking him to sleep, we ended up patting his back, while he dozed into dreamland in his new bed. Unfornately, he woke up again in the middle of the night and Sam spent a second night cuddled up on the floor in Max's room. Improvement [just thought I'd mention in case SuperNanny is reading this blog]: Max slept in his bed, while Sam curled up on the floor. That certainly counts for something, right?

Night #3
Right. New Plan. Said plan was NOT working. We discovered, in two short nights, that Max is extremely strong willed. We knew this, but were convinced even more. So strategy had to be changed. We stuck to the same nighttime routine. Bath, books, prayers, hugs and kisses. However, this time we explained we were not coming back until morning. We calmly explained that Jesus was going to give Mister peace and the Holy Spirit would provide comfort. We would be back to get him when it was time to start our day together.
It took ten minutes. Yep, that's right. TEN minutes. And Max gave up the fight. He hopped into bed and slept through the night. WOO HOO. What an accomplishment. For all of us!

Night #4
Sticking to the same plan! We put him in bed. Said our goodnights and prayers and left the room. Down to only TWO minutes of crying. Max, in his defiance, slammed his bedroom door, and climbed into bed. [I find this just hilarious. I mean really, slamming the door?]. Again, another successful night. He even woke up happy and played in his room for twenty minutes before we started the day. Progress, sweet progess.

So it seems the trick for us was four nights. Maybe we still have a few kinks to work out. But, I have to say, this is one of my proudest parent moments.

If SuperNanny ever needs to take a leave-of-absence from her show, maybe ABC would consider hiring us to take her place?

Fingers Crossed!

2010-02-27T15:25:00.004-05:00

Max's crib is officially a toddler bed!

Will keep you posted. :)

Crib Jumper

2010-02-24T13:08:00.007-05:00

It's about time I shared Max's latest and greatest achievement:

We have a JUMPER.

That's right, a CRIB JUMPER.

It was a lazy Saturday morning [at least Sam and I thought it was a lazy Saturday morning], when Max decided to have one of his infamous crib parties at 6:15 am. So in true good parenting style, I flipped the monitor off and wished him well!

At about 7:05 am, we hear LOUD singing and playing coming from the little man's room. The party was still cranking! I gave Sam a gentle nudge [thank goodness it was his morning to rouse with Max] and told him Max was ready to start the day. I turned over to catch up on some much needed sleep.

As Sam was in the bathroom, washing his face, brushing his teeth, he feels a little tap on his leg. He looks down, and WHOA, it's Max.

Pardon me?

Conversation that follows between me and Sam:

Sam: "Did you go get him out of bed?"

Jen: "No, did you go get him out of bed?"

Loooooooooong pause between the two of us.

What I love about this, is that Mister Max nonchalantly walked into our room, and then our bathroom, as if he does this EVERY morning. He was not phased one bit. However, we were. And frankly, quite petrified to put him back in his bed for nap and bedtime.

So, with much research [that was done quickly that Saturday morning], we decided we MUST purchase a video monitor. I think ebay had our order before noon. ;)

Since we had some lagtime due to shipping, we had to wing it for a few days. And didn't get much sleep for fear he would climb out again!

And lo and behold, he did try it again.

Fast foward just a few days, and I was putting him down for his afternoon nap. He was wired and not at all interested in napping. After several times of me walking in his room to tell him to quiet down, I hear this coming from the monitor [we were still working with the old monitor]:

"HelpMeHelpMeHelpMeHelpMeHelpMeHelpMeHelpMe"

Taking the stairs two at a time to figure out what was going on in his room, I discover him dangling over the side. Fully out of his crib, just hesitating to drop to the floor. OH MY! I rocked my baby boy to sleep that day to ENSURE he wouldn't climb out. ;)

Life has been a bit less stressful since we received our video monitor. However, I am not sure this is a long-term solution.

Max may be graduating to a toddler bed very soon!

We will keep you posted!

Mr. Independent

2010-02-01T20:38:00.007-05:00

It seems that Mister Maximus is doing something new everyday. He is proving his independence in not-so-subtle ways. He is vocal and expressive in explaining that he wants to do things by himself. No help from his mama. Or his daddy. He wants to do it all. by. himself.

I caught the little man in action yesterday as he discovered how to get a drink of water all by himself. He was giddy, and I am pretty sure that is an understatement. Today, I watched him fill his little sippy cup up over and over and over again. So cute. Ok, I'll be real. It was cute at first. But, by the end of the day, and the hundreth time, I was getting a bit tired of cleaning water up off the floor. But, keeping my perspective in check, I kept reminding myself that I am watching my little man learn his independence right before me very eyes. A proud mama moment...and a couple sniffles too.

Surgery Day

2010-01-26T20:30:00.004-05:00

Our little man had his first [and I am claiming last!] surgery today: tubes in his ears. He has had chronic ear infections for the last six months and tubes seemed to be the answer. He was a complete champ throughout the entire process and we pray this is the start to a new, healthy era!

And can I just say that I noticed a DRASTIC change by noon today? His mood, his disposition, his energy level, his communication. I mean, complete, drastic change. Unbelievable.

Thank you Jesus for providing us with these kind of resources.

And well done little Max. You did good!

Meet Doc

2010-01-20T20:13:00.001-05:00

Max welcomes another boy cousin to the family!

Meet Mark Daniel "Doc".

Doc weighed 8 lbs 2 oz

and measured 18 in long.

Congratulations Mark, Amy and big sister Mia!

It's 'Nowy!!

2010-01-13T19:52:00.005-05:00

Max's favorite word right now is: 'Nowy. Since we have had weeks of snow on the ground, he has had plenty of time to practice and perfect this word!

Everytime he walks past a window and peers outside, he exclaims, "it's 'nowy!" Or, he catches a glimpse of one of my snowmen decorating the house, "it's 'nowy!" Or, we get out of the car and big flakes are falling from the sky, "it's 'nowy!"

So, since this is his favorite word [and mine too :) ], I finally got him to say it for the camera tonight.

Enjoy!

16 Days

2010-01-12T20:43:00.004-05:00

Did you see my blog post title?

That's right, 16 days of wintry, snowy weather.

We have had snowfall [from flurries to several inches] everyday for 16 days in a row. [That is almost unheard of in my part of the Midwest.] That also means that EVERYDAY of 2010 has included snow! Now, that's just crazy talk. ;)

Lucky for me, I love snow. In fact, if it is going to be cold, I might as well have something beautiful to look at! Here is just a short clip of how we have made the most of these snowy days.

A Christmas to Remember

2009-12-29T20:31:00.009-05:00

"When the angels had gone away from them into heaven, the shepherds began saying to one another, "let us go straight to Bethlehem then, and see this thing that has happened which the Lord has made known to us." So they came in a hurry and found their way to Mary and Joseph, and the baby as He lay in the manger. When they had seen this, they made known the statement which had been told them about this Child. And all who heard it wondered at the things which were told them by the shepherds. But Mary treasured all these things, pondering them in her heart."

Luke 2:15-19

I absolutely love the part about Mary treasuring those things and pondering them in her heart. To ponder means to consider deeply and thoroughly; to meditate; to weigh carefully in the mind; reflect; and even estimate the worth of. Mary took the time. She was still and quiet. She treasured those first moments and pondered the destiny of this baby Jesus wrapped in swaddling clothes. She hid them in heart. Reflected and rejoiced.

I felt a bit like Mary this holiday season. I pondered so many moments, wanting not one to be taken for granted.

I pondered reading the story of baby Jesus to Max.

I pondered baking Christmas cookies with Sam. Twice.

I pondered decorating the house, inside and out, for the holiday season.

I pondered Max taking every ornament he could reach off the tree until the bottom half was bare.

I pondered the packages that arrived on our doorstep with Maximus' name on the front, just a reminder of how many people truly love and adore the little man.

I pondered our Christmas Eve in, Max tucked in bed, and Sam and I putting together the toys.

I pondered our Christmas morning and Max excited to open his gifts. And the breakfast Sam made that will hopefully be a family tradition.

I pondered our relaxed Christmas get-togethers with all the grandpas and grandmas and aunts and uncles and cousins.

I pondered how different Christmas was only a few short years ago.

I pondered how a gift like Max, a beautiful, blue-eyed, baby boy could change our world. Forever.

I think I got a small glimpse this Christmas into what it meant for Mary to "treasure all those things and ponder them in her heart." She was overwhelmed. Thankful. Grateful. Filled-up. Satisfied. And deeply moved by the goodness of God.

And so am I.

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Some of my favorite Christmas moments

Max models some of the clothes he received from our friends in NY.

Lookin' good my man!

Sam sportin' his "Cousin Eddie" [from Christmas Vacation] outfit.

Christmas morning Max played with his toolbench forever. and ever. and ever.

[and was completely oblivious to the BIG WHITE SHEET behind him that had his new Jeep Power Wheels underneath!]

Another favorite gift, his dog he calls "Abby"

[after my parents dog that is named Abby].

Finally...

Checking out his new ride.

Standing on his new ride.

One of the gifts from Grandma Tonya and birthdaddy, Colton.

I love wooden toys and so does Max!

Max, so proud of his new [and noisy!] fire truck.

Thanks Uncle Josh, we owe you.

Why Is It So?

2009-12-23T20:23:00.004-05:00

Today, Max and I had the pleasure of hanging out with two of my nieces, Abigail and Lauren, and my nephew, Gabriel. I won't bore you with all the details of my SIL's dislocated shoulder [yep, that's right. Kristen fell, dislocated her shoulder, and is now doing all functions with only her left arm]. I thought it would be a nice and welcomed relief to have some of her kiddos hang with us today.

Since I strive to win the "Aunt of the Year" award, I pulled out all the stops. Art projects. Board Games [you play a mean Hullabaloo, Gabe!]. Baking. Snacks. Treats. Cartoons. A delicious pot roast dinner.I think you get my point. One would think I would have this award in the bag.

One. Would. Think.

That is, until, Uncle Sam walked in the door. How easily the children forgot the Rolos I offered them spontaneously. You know, a "just because" treat. Or, the two cartoons I let them watch back-to-back. Or, allowing them to take every single stuffed animal out of hibernation and tuck them in Max's crib. Every. Single. Last. One. And, oh by the way, I found all three children in the crib [at the same time] with these said animals.

Again, one would think I have this award in the bag.

So, why is it so that children just love their daddies and uncles?

I give you

Exhibit A: The Ball Pit War

and

Exhibit B: Ride the Bull

You will know exactly why Uncle Sam won the coveted award today.

Sam,

you are one incredible husband, amazing father and fun-loving uncle.

You deserve the title.

Congrats.

Let It Snow

2009-12-20T15:12:00.005-05:00

I feel that I am being reminded, more than ever, of how fast our little boy is growing up. Last year, around the holidays, he was just learning to crawl and was quite content to lay or sit in one spot. He barely noticed the big green tree in our family room. And he certainly didn't touch any of our Christmas decorations. This year, well lets just say, he is fully aware of all the holiday cheer sprinkled throughout our house!

We had our first snow day this weekend. I couldn't resist showing you then and now pictures. What a vast difference a year can make.

THEN:

NOW:

Enjoy the holiday week ahead! May it be Merry and Bright as we celebrate the birth of our Savior.

Feliz Navidad

2009-12-04T15:45:00.005-05:00

To get into the Christmas spirit, Max and I participated in a holiday party at a local art studio. It was an hour packed with music, crafts, snacks, and of course, Mr. and Mrs. Claus.

The attentive student

Max did not enjoy his meet n greet with

Santa Claus

Craft time

Music man

And for your listening enjoyment. Max on the bongos to the tune of Feliz Navidad. Enjoy!

Mama's New Shoes

2009-12-03T20:18:00.008-05:00

A girl's best friend: shoes.

Or is it diamonds?

Well, just to be safe. A girl's best friend is shoes and diamonds.

Today I will be talking about one of my best friends: shoes. Doesn't every girl love a new pair of shoes. Well, I received a box from Piperlime.com [ahhhhhhhh] this afternoon and couldn't wait to rip it open.

**On a sidenote, isn't this so funny? I mean, I already knew what was in the box. I ordered it. Myself. Just the other day. But, when the glorious box shows up on the doorstep [thank you UPS man, I heart you], I get that giddy feeling all over again. Please tell me you can relate.**

OK, back to the story at hand. My little sidekick, Max, is also excited to see what is in the box. O little man, it is shoes, sweet shoes. I know my love of shoes has definitely rubbed off on Max. I am certain I have shared that with you before. So, much to my delight, Max squealed with excitement when I opened the box and pulled out a brand.new.pair.of.tennis.shoes.

Now, I only buy a new pair of tennis shoes once every other year. So, I labor over the purchase since I know I will be wearing them for a longtime to come. These shoes? They did not disappoint. [Mizuno's...in case you are wondering.]

And can I mention that these shoes were worth every penny. Every. Penny. And I haven't even worn them yet.

Why, you ask?

They kept Mister Max's attention for 45 minutes. Yep, that's right. Forty-five minutes. Just in case you didn't catch that. He played and tried on my new shoes for 45 minutes [I am pretty sure that calculates to like 3.5 years in dog years]. He was.Totally. Completely. Captivated. And who could blame him?

Here is a short clip of him concentrating to put them on and tie them up.

And one photo of him successfully getting both new shoes on at the same time! Well done Max. You made mommy proud!

Here Comes the Ring Bearer

2009-11-30T15:31:00.005-05:00

Max and I were honored to be a part of my cousin, Marie's, wedding day.

It was a fairy tale wedding that included a stunning bride and adorable little ring bearer.

Congratulations to the newlyweds!

Marie and her girls

Max the Ring Bearer

There's a smile!

Time to call it a night

Mommy and Daddy stayed late

and cut a rug on the dance floor

Paradise

2009-11-19T10:00:00.005-05:00

Sam and I just returned from paradise in Riviera Maya, Mexico. We spent 6 glorious days and 5 glorious nights pretending like we were on our honeymoon again. It was pure bliss.

We celebrated my 30th birthday in style. Our lazy days were spent by the beach and our evenings at romantic dinners. What a way to celebrate a birthday!

While we were away, Mister Max was well taken care of by his Grandma and Papa. We emailed daily with the little guy and he seemed to get along just fine without us. Here are a few excerpts. I am sure they will bring a smile to your face as they did ours every time we read one!

11/12: Day 1 of Trip

Hi mommy and daddy,

I hope you had a fun afternoon at the pool/beach. I was soooo good all day. I got
to play with Eli all morning and Maddie watched us and took us outside in the back. It
was great fun. We then had a delicious lunch (I'm wearing a bib for grandma) of grilled
cheese, tomato soup, etc.

I didn't nap very long, maybe one hr. and then talked and coughed a little for another
hr. Grandma got me up and I was very good and happy. We left for home at 4.
Papa played with me lots while grandma finished dinner and cleaned up. I ate
all my spaghetti, some peas, yo-gurt, raspberries, pretzels. I did good, huh? and milk.
Well it is after 7 so I know they will say it's bedtime soon so I guess I better go and
play with them a little more so they won't be sad. Maybe read them a book.

All is well and I am happy. Have fun and don't be sad at all.
I love you, Max

11/15: Day 4 of Trip

Okay I'm telling on Grandma. She slept til 7:30 this morning. Papa got up and moved the monitor and
shut the door so she could sleep. Papa and I had a great early morning time together.
We looked at books and he gave me some dry cheerios and a drink to hold me til breakfast.
He loves to hold me when I wake. Me and my baa baa.

We went to church and I went to the nursery. Aunt Becca and Uncle Chris were in there.
I stayed in there til 11:15 and then they took me back to Gma. Becca said my nose was
running and I coughed on kids. Whatever! Don't tell I told or Gma will get in trouble.

Church was great. The Lord was moving. Worship lasted til noon again and then Pastor Jim
said to get your kids and come back up front if you want to. We left and went to Jersey
Mikes with Uncle Luke, Aunt Bethany and cousin Claire.

Home for nap. I slept not quite 2 hrs. Then books, played outside etc. My favorite -
Gma sat me in her lap and we checked out all the blogs. I loved it and didn't move for
20 min.

Lauren came at 4 and we played, outside and in. I ate the biggest dinner - spaghetti,
kiwi, and frozen yogurt and milk etc. Delicious! Lauren and I are now watching a video
before bath/bed. What a great day here at the Ritz. Uncle Tom and Beth are stopping by
at 8:30 to show us her engagement ring. I guess I'll be in bed:-(

I am wearing a bib at every meal. I even tuck it in behind the tray. Gma has these
great cotton bibs. Plastic sucks!

I love you and miss you but I am doing so great - real bonding with these old folks.
Love, Max

11/16: Day 5

Hi mommy and daddy,

I'm counting down. 24 hrs. or less. I miss you. I had a great day. Lauren played with
me this morning. Then we met Auntie Kristen and kiddos at Mc.D's for lunch and we took
Lauren to school.
I slept and slept for my nap. After 2 and half hrs. Grandma turned on the hall light,
15 more minutes and she turned on the bedroom light. I finally roused at almost 3 hrs.
Whew, I bet I grew sleeping so much.

We ran a couple errands and went outside. It is so nice here, the weather has been good.

O.K. it is 8:30 pm and I am jabbering up a storm in my bed. I stayed up til 8:15. Papa got
home from his elders meeting and I wanted to spend some time with him. I go from Grandma to Papa without hesitation. Hope I don't hurt her feelings. It's a guy thing.

See you at the airport. I'll be the little guy with beautiful blue eyes and blond curls
grinning ear to ear.

Love, Max

Keeping the Tradition Alive

2009-11-08T14:09:00.003-05:00

I love sharing then and now photos. And here is a winner! Sam recruited his trusty sous chef, Max, to assist him in baking a pumpkin pie again this year!

Pumpkin Pie Cook-Off 2008

Pumpkin Pie Cook-Off 2009

Max and His New Obstacle Course

2009-11-01T20:04:00.003-05:00

Doesn't every child need an obstacle course in their family room?

Max certainly thinks so. Check him out!

Trick or Treat

2009-10-31T19:56:00.003-04:00

Max's first Trick or Treat

as an OSU Football Player

Getting geared up for the big night

What is this 'candy' they speak of?

Have you heard of it?

It's delicious. Oh so delicious.

I must. Have. More.

Little Things

2009-10-30T20:34:00.007-04:00

I know. This picture probably doesn't mean much at first glance. But, as I walked through our Mud Room today, I was overwhelmed at the sight of little shoes. And these little shoes were in my house and belonged to my son. Completely. Utterly. Overwhelmed.

My every day life now consists of...

Folding little clothes fresh out of the dryer.

Filling little sippy cups with milk, juice and water.

Cleaning up little toys and books and puzzle pieces.

Calling little friends over for play dates.

Giving little hugs, kisses and hand pounds.

Taming little golden curls that can be quite unruly.

Scrubbing little toes clean in the bathtub.

Whispering in little ears, "I Love You."

And of course, lining little shoes up by the door.

It's the little things that help remind you of the big things, you know? Where you have been. Where you are going. And the journey that makes up the in between.

Amazing how a pair of little shoes could be so inspiring.

Pumpkin Patch

2009-10-22T08:26:00.008-04:00

We enjoyed a warm, fall day at the pumpkin patch with friends and family. Max was quite at home on the farm. He dragged his favorite pumpkin around for ages, played and played in the cornbox with his cousins, and even had his first homemade powdered sugar doughnut. All in all, I think it was a success!

Eighteen Month Update

2009-10-20T15:07:00.008-04:00

Max had his eighteen month well visit [about 10 days early].

I've got two words for you: Growing. Boy.

He weighed 26 lbs 12 oz - 55th percentile.

He measured 34 inches long - 93rd percentile.

At eighteen months, Max has 25+ words [doctor shared that 5-10 is typical at this age]:

Daddy, Mommy, Abby, nose, sock, shoe, eat, bite, hot, cheese, uh-oh, dog, duck, blue, up, out, car, happy, more please, help me, shoot [as in a basketball, and he puts the hand motion with it], moojoo [that's his word for movie], baa baa [his beloved blankie], yes, and no. And it seems like he is saying a new one everyday...

Animal sounds he knows:

Lion = roar, Duck = quack, quack, Cow = moooooo, Horse = neigh

He also laughs and laughs when I snort like a pig, but he is yet to do it himself. Hmmmm....

Body parts he knows and points at when you say the word:

nose, ears, eyes, tongue [which is hilarious because he sticks his tongue out and wiggles it back and forth], toes and belly button.

We are so blessed to have a happy, healthy, bright and FUN little guy.

Craft Time

2009-10-18T14:08:00.006-04:00

Max officially worked on his first art project this weekend: painting a pumpkin. What a beaut! Really, I think he has quite a gift. I, on the other hand, do not have a gift when it comes to arts and crafts.

Therefore, I will be leaning on my sis-in-law, Amy, [who is quite brilliant at ideas for crafts], to teach him all her arts and crafts ways. She was the brains behind the pumpkin project at our nephew, Vance's, second birthday party this weekend.

Thanks Amy, and Happy Birthday Vance!

**please note the paint is non-toxic as it is obvious that Max tried to eat it. :-)

For the Love of Hockey

2009-10-15T16:22:00.003-04:00

I just can't get enough of this YouTube video and had to share. With all the hockey talk around our house, I wonder if this will be Max in a few years...

And for those of you that have time....

This video became so popular on YouTube that it caught Ellen's eye.